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Are You Suffering? Do you need Healing?

You may be interested in the Morning Share Healing Circle. There is no cost to join the group, and it is open to all. No experience is necessary– only a receptive mind, and a heart that is open to receive. The Circle meets in the privacy of your own home, via conference call, at 10 am EST (New York time), Monday through Friday.

The work varies each day, but we always focus on creating a safe, sacred space for us to thrive in. We lift ourselves with loving, positive affirmations, and deeply relax while listening to guided imagery. Slowly and gently we shift the old beliefs that limit our health and vitality. We become stronger and happier.

The group started because I observed a pattern with my clients and students. They had major breakthroughs when we worked together, but would come back to me suffering anew. When I asked “What happened? Are you doing the homework? Are you caring for yourself as I showed you? Are you doing the energy work?” The answer was always “No.” They had been taught what to do, but failed to do the work long enough to settle into a whole new pattern.

And so I decided to share my morning quiet time to teach them how wonderful it feels to live in a state of Love– to vibrate to it, and to release old pain. I think that when we vibrate to Love, all that returns to us is radiant Love. Initially I set out to just share my daily work, but there have been many positive changes for people, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally.  The more we lift each other and ourselves up to the light, the more radiant joy we attract.

Many people are reporting tremendous leaps in healing and joy. Here are some comments from members of the group:

WOW!  This group is the most amazing gift in awareness I have ever encountered. I can’t quite believe my luck! Every day a new awareness; a new insight; a new way of seeing what you thought you knew! I’m learning so so much; it’s really working for me.

Peggy has a certain way; an integration of a myriad of ideologies western or eastern, that is seamlessly practical and effective and simple. This will help you now… they are amazing. You really do need some kind of daily practice. It’s like checking your Inbox. Luckily for me and thank you endlessly Peggy Ray, mine is definitely more full of love. Thank you Morning Share.

Simply put, this group is a gift I don’t want to miss. I have learnt so much. The daily practice of this knowledge highlights how close we all are to our best and also how rarely we step into that freedom. Everyday I have been gifted with new awareness, new gifts; in fact, I now see my energy system in a much more simplified but effective way.   —Ruu Campbellruucampbell.com


I listen to Peggy’s morning share every day. I love it as it keeps me grounded, so grateful and living in love. Peggy takes us on a new and exciting adventure every day, where we delve into our hidden depths and emerge in love and radiance to start the day.
–Carmel Greenwood; carmelconcepts.com
The morning share has changed my life. Peggy showed me the way; her love gives me the tools to love myself, so I have peace, strength, health, give love, am loved and feel safe. I feel so good; happy, peaceful, relaxed, which almost never happens for me, safe; and most of all I know I am not alone. Peggy is a true gift from God and I am so honored that she came into my life. The energy from the morning share is so strong it is like a bond that can never be broken.    –Sheri Roose

I do LOVE these meditations and feel that it has helped my life tremendously!  You are so gifted and I am so blessed to be a part of all this!  I always have beautiful visuals/scenes in my heart when I listen to your meditations.  There is always a sense of calmness with love and light! Thank you Peggy again!  —Elma Wright

This Morning Share Group is an incredible way to start your day.  Peggy Ray is an amazing, exceptional, positive energy with an enormous heart. She gives so much of herself, her time, talent, and positive energy.  Thank you, Thank you Peggy, this group is such a blessing to me and every morning I feel like I won the lottery.

Just when the world has beat you down and you are not feeling good enough, she takes you and transforms you into this strong, positive being of light and reminds you that the world needs you to shine. I am so grateful for this special time and the knowledge she has given me.

Everyday a new adventure, a dream, a stroll down the highway of awareness, insight and heart felt intentions, which are sometimes hard to bring to the surface. She paints a beautiful picture of places that you have never been but can’t wait to go back to visit. Then at the end of that journey, not only does she make you feel safe, strong, vibrantly healthy, accepted, and whole again, she then wraps you up in a big fluffy pink blanket of love and sends you off in the world to face another day. —Debbie Trafecanty

If you would like to hear a sample of the group, you can listen to my tape of Deep Forgiveness of Self & Others. It is approximately 50 minutes long, and will give you a very good idea of the type of energy generated in the group. If you have been holding a hurt for many years, this tape will help you to release it. You can also visit my blog to learn a Forgiveness Ritual that my guides taught me.

If you would like a shorter sample, you may like Ask Your Angel. It contains a guided meditation designed to help you connect to your Angel, and to ask any questions you need answered.

The calls vary, from 40- 50 minutes in length. If you would like to join our circle, simply let me know. I will send you the information you need to join us. Please invite anyone that you feel would benefit from the call. The more people holding a sacred space, the more healing energy is generated. If you do join us, or friends do, please let me know so that I can notify you of cancellations or last-minute changes.  I will not give out your personal information.

I hope to share my morning with you soon.

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Many people repeat the same type of painful pattern again and again. The circumstances of these traumas seem bigger & more hurtful over time, so as to draw our attention to them. For instance, everyone I have met who had an auto collision had 2 earlier warnings– first a near-miss, then a little swipe perhaps, finally the big bang. If we will learn to recognize & pay attention to the little signs along the way, we can avoid the big collisions.

Painful patterns emerge because we are trying to alert ourselves to a false belief about our life or ourselves.  The majority of these beliefs are instilled in us before we are fully verbal, often at an age when we are too young to remember them consciously. An infant or young child is powerless; they are unable to fully process all the stimuli presented to them in the same way that an adult can. Events that seem everyday to a grownup, such as visiting a doctor for an immunization, can seem frightening and traumatic to a child. They are unable to process or reframe trauma in a way that leaves them feeling safe and powerful.  The resulting false beliefs limit our joy and can attract traumatic incidents that repeat as patterns in our adult lives.

Let me give you an example of a pattern that is quite dramatic, and so very easy to discern. A young woman came to see me to make sense of the traumatic life she was experiencing. She cried for an hour or more as she told me her sad story.  She had recently been robbed in NYC in a terrifying incident and was certain that she would die when her assailant pulled a gun and threatened her life. About 14 months earlier a man had assaulted her, knocked out several of her teeth, beat her to the point of unconsciousness and left her battered and bleeding.  Approximately 15 months before the beating she was raped at knifepoint, beaten badly, and left for dead.  It was quite painful to watch her re-experience the horror of these traumas as she related them to me.

As I questioned her, a long pattern of chaos appeared. These three incidents were the most severe in a life-long string of abuses and personal violations. This woman had been beaten, robbed, pushed, injured, and assaulted more times than imaginable. As she sobbed away, she told me she did not want to go on living, for life was too painful and horrifying to endure. I was her last hope, that she might find some peace after years of trauma. What had drawn her to me? A simple statement on my web site that I believed we can transform pain into joy. My heart went out to this young woman as I looked at her tear-stained face.

As I worked with her guides and Higher Self, a startling story emerged. Her Spirit helpers told me that at birth, this young woman was absolutely perfect, as all infants are. She was a confident, happy, positive and cheerful child. She reached out to the world with love, and possessed absolute assurance that loving arms would reach back. At the age of 14 months, her life changed forever.

This baby was taken to the park in her carriage for her daily outing. As she drowsed in the warm autumn sun, her nanny wandered off or fell asleep. As the child lay dreaming peacefully, snug and secure, some insane person came upon her, and set a fire under her baby carriage. She awakened screaming in terror and pain as the metal bottom of the carriage became unbearably hot.  Her Spirit guides told me that this trauma had changed her belief about the world as a loving place. The people that were ‘supposed’ to take care of her had failed in their duty.

This traumatic incident started false beliefs that the people who loved her would not shelter or protect her, and that the world was a place where other people tried to kill you. You could be peacefully minding your own business, and a stranger would try to harm you. It was easy to see why this woman had experienced so many horrific and life threatening events. If you believe this is a place where people try to kill you, then that is what becomes true for you. It matters not what others think or believe, for what we believe creates our reality. Is there any wonder this woman believed the world was a terrifying place? For her, it was.

My client did not recall this incident, but she phoned her mother from my office, which confirmed the truth of the story. Her parents had never told her; they hoped that she had forgotten the incident, and feared they would traumatize her further if they revealed the event to her.

In my opinion, all children remember everything, even a fetus in its mother’s womb. I worked with this woman to remove her traumatic recall, and she walked out after one visit into a happier, healthier world. She still stays in touch, and I am happy to report that she has never suffered another attack.

Why is that? Because she no longer needs to recall her pain in order to heal the false belief she was burdened with. That is the only reason we relive painful circumstances over and over– to remember the false beliefs and heal the pain associated with those beliefs. Once I removed her false beliefs, I instilled a new idea that the world is a loving and protective place, full of hope and joy. Of course she must now find it so.

How do we know we carry false beliefs? We know because those beliefs were not in place at the moment of our birth.  An infant is always born perfect—open, loving, unafraid, fully accepting of love and the inherent goodness of all beings, all things. The hurtful events that we encounter in life gradually teach us that we are inadequate, weak, and unlovable. If we learned false beliefs as a child, we can unlearn them as adults.

False beliefs, and the solution to remedy them, will always start and end with you. Your feelings, your experiences, your beliefs. Change your attitude, and the circumstances of your life will follow.

What painful patterns do you experience again and again? What limiting beliefs are you trying to alert yourself to? Are you always passed over for a promotion that you deserved, do you inevitably attract partners who are unfaithful to you, do you seem to have a particular type of drama happen over and over again? If so, you may be unconsciously reliving a false belief and trying to alert yourself to the need to change the belief and thereby modify its accompanying situations.

Your beliefs may not be as easy to discern as my client’s were, but they are there. Focusing on remembering how you felt in response to painful events may make it easier for you to recall similar incidents. The people involved will change, but the general circumstances and the emotions they triggered in you will be similar.

Once you think you see a pattern, write it down. What are the general types of experience that seem to reoccur?  Summarize the circumstances in a line or two. Get a sense of how the energy works for you—are you always the one left feeling abandoned, the one who does all the work, the one who is betrayed, the one left unrewarded?

Next, try to see how this pattern has escalated over the years. It should become clearer and more apparent each time it appears. Try to trace the events back from the most recent to the earliest time you can recall. Allow yourself to fully feel the emotions that accompany this process. Do you feel angry with yourself or others, betrayed, sad or hopeless? Let yourself feel the emotions as clearly as you can. The reason these events reoccur is because we stuff our feelings about them down and run away from them in the present.

As yourself: What information did you not know or understand at the time of the event? What knowledge about yourself would have helped you to process or reframe this experience? Complete this statement: If only I had known ________, I would have dealt with this experience so much better.

For example, if only I had known that I was truly lovable, and if only I had been more self-confident, I would not have attracted such an abusive partner. Or, if only I knew how valuable and intelligent I was, I would not have settled for such a lousy dead-end job.

Once you have identified the negative beliefs you hold about yourself and others, you can begin the process of healing those beliefs. Just your becoming aware of them can allow you to begin ‘catching’ yourself as they come up. Work on affirming the truth—that you are a powerful, radiant, deeply loved child of the Universe. The more you believe that you are lovable, the more positive your attitude, the less drama you will create. I love this affirmation:

~No drama, no trauma; I choose to learn all my lessons through Love and kindness~*

I would like to share one final thought. I believe that everything in life is a gift. Some gifts come encircled in beautiful wrappings, and we are delighted to receive them. Some gifts come wrapped in ugly paper, and we may not view them so enthusiastically. Yet all things in life hold value… all events in life are gifts nonetheless. It is our job to unwrap them, and to look for the beauty within each circumstance.

You are a powerful, radiant, deeply loved child of the Universe. Believe it, and it will become so.

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